Fawn wrote:
How I see it, character types, tropes, ect. are just symbols, just like 2d art is just a symbol. It should be these symbols that appeal to the reader/player, not the realism. For example, in a lot of games blonde girls with blue eyes are still considered to be of Japanese descent, even though westerners would most likely say she's white/european because we're used to the symbol of blonde hair and blue eyes being white. However those colors are actually just symbols for what kind of person she is...
The fact that there are so many colorful characters in anime is ultimate escapism for people who live in a place like Japan where everyone may have the same hair color and eye color. Instead of focusing on how they look in reality, they represent the "colors" of their personality.
Yes, I've noticed that hair colors especially are often a short-hand way of conveying immediately what "type" of character an anime character is. (I would link to the TVTropes page on it, but I would feel horrible being responsible for sucking unsuspecting forum-goers into a black hole from which time cannot escape . . . .)
The Japanese psyche exposed by anime and manga conventions and tropes has always fascinated me. I can definitely see the escapism angle to it all. Other things are a little more uncomfortable to notice - like lately I have noticed nearly all the lead characters in the mangas I have been reading are 'half-Japanese'. Some are straight-up European. Maybe I've just happened upon a string of them by luck and coincidence, but there seem to be an awful lot of explanations to the tune of "My mother is Japanese, and I was born here in Japan, but my father was [insert either American here, or a European country]." I've heard a lot of popular models and actresses in Japan are of mixed parentage - apparently the traditional Japanese features mixed with the sharper bone structure and rounder (but still almond shaped) eyes are a big hit. ::shrug:: I don't know, I'm not in any position to be an authority or critique further, but as an American I always 'twinge' a little when Japan does something that appears to glorify or idolize America or American culture. It's an irrational reaction, but I always see shades of Stockholm syndrome in it - after all, we did nuke their country, occupy it, and then told them how to form their new government.
Back on topic-
What makes a girl character attractive to me? The same things that make a girl attractive to me in real life.
It is a mix of looks and personality. The thing is, that mix is nebulous. I've found all kinds of girls attractive, some very different from one another. In fact, one girl I fell for on first sight had a large scar across her face! (And I don't have a scar fetish.) I wouldn't normally find that kind of thing attractive, but she had the most amazing smile and flashing eyes. After getting to know her, I wouldn't even have wanted her scar to go away - I liked it because I liked her, and it was part of my image of her in my mind.
In general though, I can pin down a few things. Breast size doesn't matter, I've been equally attracted to women with large breasts and women who were flat-chested. But I despise women that
use their breasts like they are some form of currency - those that act like they can use them to manipulate me. I take it to mean that they are shallow. Or that they think I'M shallow, neither of which is good.
I like girls that are smart. They don't have to be book smart, but they need to be intelligent and clever. That goes hand in hand with being attracted to girls that are my equal. I'm always looking for a girl that will be a partner, not a dependent. I'm attracted to a girl that will call me on my excuses, who isn't afraid to speak her mind. That said, I really don't like girls that talk all the time. I like enjoying quiet time with a girl, where each word spoken is meaningful or to the point.
I like optimists. I like a girl that is hopeful, looks on the bright side of things, and is cheerful most of the time, relaxed and without a love of drama. I get exasperated with pessimists, emos (though I love the visual look), etc.
Finally, I like girls that are assertive, confident, and know what they want. I DESPISE the submissive "traditional Japanese wife" type. I really can't stand VN or the like where the girl whimpers or cries during sex. As a man, my "tool" would just stop working and I'd have to stop, because they would be making me feel like a rapist, which isn't sexy.
So to recap, I'm attracted to girls that are smart, clever, and confident, with an optimistic outlook on life.