Would you want to be in a project with people who are not even a little proactive?
Teams like that never complete anything and are often so disheartened by the experience that they may give up on creating VNs.
I'm a new face.
And that in essence is the problem I am raising here.
We were all new members. Then we posted and we became part of the community.
Yes, there is an introduction forum, there is a tutorial forum, there is a recruitment forum and there are project forums
every evidence points to the absence of an organized effort to incorporate new members into the forum.
You listed organized efforts already being made to incorporate new members. If they aren't going to put fingers to keys, then there's little else anyone can do.
I don't expect people to drop their big important projects to go and babysit a little nobody who just came onto the scene
I've been here for two and a half years and this is the first time I've heard anyone refer to new members in a negative way. My experience is that the community as a whole is very welcoming to anyone who joins in.
If you want to be part of a project, either start one or showcase what you can offer to existing groups.
If you can't draw or make music, then write. It's not hard to create drama from nothing.
I'm going to say it again just to be absolutely clear:
Anyone who won't communicate without having their hand held will be a nightmare to work with.
"We must teach them through the tools with which they are comfortable."
The #renpy IRC channel is a great place to chat with other devs. Due to the nature of IRC and timezone differences, people probably won't reply right away.
If you'd like to view or use any code from my VN PM me. All code is freely available without restriction, but also without warranty or (much) support.