Well, relationship talk seem more interesting to me anyway...Hime wrote:Haha, from car ads to relationship talk. Just how a conversation can change.
From my talk with one of these people, the person seem to be aiming higher than what she had gotten. She just became somebody's girlfriend because her target is still not found. She feels that having a boyfriend gives her some sort of benefits so even if the guy isn't up to her standard, she'll still accept him. So as long as no target is found then she'll stay with him but the moment she have a target(popular guy becomes single again, meet someone great, etc), it's sayonara to the boyfriend. I don't know if this is applicable to these people in general but it seems believable to me.Hime wrote:For people who don't realise this, companions are just passing delights which you toss away for another one when you get bored of them... Durr, just can't understand that kind of attitude. As if people were disposable. It's sad.
(The above isn't an example of what is considered a testing period, it's just something someone told me about)
However, I don't think there's anything wrong with keep changing companions if both persons in the relationship knows that they are still in a "testing" period. During testing period, it's important that neither one person becomes a parasite of the other because it makes breaking up harder since the host feels the parasite owes him/her too much to ask for a breakup. If neither one becomes a parasite then neither one ends up feeling the relationship was a mistake and both ends up being happy that they are a bit more experienced already.
Urm...in case somebody is annoyed that I went off-topic, I apologize in advance. Please just ignore this message if you want to talk about cars.