You see my other favorite game type are racing simulations. Now, I am also fine with nice arcade racer games where physics are forgiving and fun is the main point. But, admittedly, I play those games only if I want to take a break.
Similarly here, my main interest is for games where romance has the leading role. I will play and enjoy related games with less focus on romance, because a little variety is always nice.
But in the end, whenever I finish/stop playing an arcade racer and get back to my set-up racing sim car, and having to worry about getting the apex right or have a good set of tyres, I always feel back at home, that this is what I like playing the most.
And whenever there is a new ren'ai game, I have the same feeling - that this is the kind of game I feel most happy playing.
Therefore, it's more a personal thing than anything else.
